Just like gay men, cops and military people are misunderstood. Unfortunately some people do not take the time to know us or they simply stereotype us. I am gay and I said it but I do not broadcast it to everyone. Your orientation is irrelevant to me but I would like to meet a police man or military man. Hey Officer you have to trust someone! Let us talk about what ever is on your mind. I am looking to meet in real. I am not looking to have imaginary friends. I will respect your privacy. No hang ups here.